I am helping Jo celebrate her birthday with the Big Birthday Blog Hop....
She has assigned us a year to comment on and this is her comment for the year 1981
1981 - Jo was 15. Jo has settled into High School
life and has become involved in the school dramatical productions. The first
year they performed songs from Oliver, the next year it was a 1920s evening with
assorted songs, sketches and a performance of The Magic Piano. It was during
these rehearsals that Jo was approached by the drama teacher who suggested that
she might enjoy being involved with the stage lighting. This was a tactful way
of telling Jo she cannot sing! Fortunately Jo loved operating the lighting desk
and building the scaffold tower to adjust the lights (Health & Safety would
have had a fit!). Jo also discovered Drama was useful for getting out of
unpopular lessons - "I can't do PE, we have a rehearsal"
First of all in 1981 I was 34 years old. Old enough to have been her mom! I had been married 11 years. A few tidbits about that year: The top selling car was Toyota, the average cost of a gallon of gas in the US was $1.25, in the UK it was a Royal Wedding: Lady Diana married Prince Charles, Top film was Raiders of the Lost Ark, popular boy name was Michael and for the girls Jennifer. That year my birthday (February 3) was on a Tuesday! A memory does come to mind. I was working my second year as a Social Director (all around activity and party planner) at a nursing facility in Rhode Island. Mary was admitted as a full time resident the year before. She was a sweet soft spoken lady who used a wheelchair for mobility and we became fast friends. Her sons lived out of state, one in Florida and one in New York. I became her "adopted daughter" as her NY son Joe called me. One day Mary handed me a gift.....her diamond engagement ring!
I was speechless. I had only known her a short time and besides, I could not accept a gift let alone this! It only fits on my pinky now. It is 18kt gold with lovely scrolls on each side of the diamond. She and her husband came from the Azores and married there in 1910. The next day I was called into the administrators office and Mary was sitting there. After speaking with son Joe in NY, the administrator handed me the ring! Papers were signed and it was legal. Mary lived to be 104. So I guess something special did happen that year after all. Jo also asked that we post a picture of something we stitched that we think she would like...
This was stitched in the eighties and I think Jo would agree with the sentiment.....we may be miles and an ocean apart but we are friends with ever holding hands or hugging or meeting....
Happy Birthday dear Jo and good wishes for many more celebrations. Thank you for letting me participate in this blog party. Thank you my dear friends for always stopping by and for your kind words. Have a great day. Be sure to stop by Jo's place and say Happy Birthday!
